| Sex : |
Male |
| Age : |
55 |
| Country : |
United States |
| Description |
| I WILL BE COMING TO MALAYSIA IN October 2006 (MOTHER'S HIDE YOUR DAUTHER'S lol). LIKE TO HOOK UP WITH OTHERS AND LEARN ABOUT YOUR WONDERFUL CULTURE.
Introduction: All your life, you had specific dreams
about what your family life would be like when you
finally married.
You were so intent on what you wanted;
you even made a list of qualities and
characteristics
you were looking for in a spouse, in a home,
in your job, in your children.
But time passed,
and that person you were so intent on
didn't come along.
All of your friends married,
had children, had beautiful homes.
And still you were single.
You prayed and prayed and prayed for
that person to come along, but nothing happened.
You had a good job.
You served in your church.
You spent daily time with the Lord in
prayer and studying the Word.
You dedicated your life to serving God in
every way possible, but still nothing.
So you decided to take matters into your own
hands,
and you began an active search for a mate.
And within a short period, you met
someone who almost fit the bill.
Almost.
Sure, there were a few things missing, a
few rusty spots in that person's character.
But, after all, no one is perfect.
Maybe your goals were too high.
Maybe you'd been asking for the
impossible.
Maybe this was the person God wanted for you
so your character could grow through
dealing with his or her failings.
To the single folks out there, this is for you.
Single means you have the time to grow
and be the person you want to be.
Single gives you space to grow.
Sometimes, it is harder to grow when
you are too close to someone. Trees are
planted far apart so they can spread their
branches
and become strong as they mature.
Single means learning to live by yourself.
However, that is no more difficult than
learning to live with somebody else.
Single means freedom. You are free to
spend a week's vacation on the beach,
to take computer courses,
to work late on an interesting project,
to spend the day in bed with a good book
or simply with a person who has read one.
Single means learning not to need a
man/woman to make your life meaningful
but learning to live with a man/woman
because you want to be with him/her.
Single means that sometimes you will wonder
why you will bite your lip and feel wistful and
wonder if marriage is better.
Ironically, yet quite happily, single is
feeling good about being in control of your life.
It is liking and respecting who you are
and why you are.
Single is realizing that being married is
not necessarily better, it is merely different.
Single means that there could be something
wonderful
around the corner and you can take advantage of
it.
Being single means you are free to love again.
Are you? |